Raised in uberly Catholic Puerto Rico, Bandora found it to be a beautiful place but not compatible with the general culture. So as soon as she graduated high school she moved to Miami where she transitioned from traditional college studies to a metaphysical life following her passions of Pagan and alternative spirituality, energy healing and soul service.

Little did she know that such a spiritual pursuit would lead to her randomly crossing paths with the love of her life. On whatever spare time she finds, she can be found reading, surfing the internet, building websites for fun, hugging trees and planning cruises.

After 8 years in Miami she took the leap of faith and moved 2 hours north to the Treasure Coast seeking new energies, new environment and getting to know that friend better.

 

About Fox

Born and raised on Long Island.  Moved to Florida to pursuit both educational and spiritual pursuits.  Recently achieved his long time dream of becoming a Licensed Massage Therapist. 

Founder of FOF (Friends of Fox) a group of kindred spirits, he fosters a sense of community and spiritual cammaderie among diverse friends.

His hobbies include writing, photography and inline skating.

 

 

 

 

How we met

Her side of the story

Like most “how we met stories,” this had a lot of chance and coincidence. It started with an unknown crossing of paths during Samhain 2004. A few months later while I was enjoying my favorite past time of spending hours on the internet when sometime late at night I get a message on MySpace from a man that claims to have seen me at a festival that I had attended a few months prior. Several hours of internet conversation later a friendship was born.

We were friends for several years mainly talking online and hanging out twice a year at the same festival where he first saw me. All that time I didn't know he liked me. Even when he went out of his way taking a whole day to drive over 100 miles each way to help me at an event I still didn't take the hint.

By Beltaine 2008 I had gotten used to the singledom when life decided that I'm better with someone than without. He finally he got up the courage to open up about his feelings and after the initial shock, denial and turn down he got me to agree to give him a chance.

What started as a long distance casual dating relationship between friends evolved into a deep heart connection that continues to get stronger everyday.

 

His Side of the Story

It was a little over four years ago when I first laid eyes on her at festival....she was by far the most attractive pagan woman I had ever seen. I looked at her then and knew that she was the one I had been waiting for my whole life.

She was with someone... so I didn't get a chance to talk to her.....but I knew then, that I would surely see her again.

I didn't know who she was or where she was from.....but thankfully Spirit allowed me to "accidentally" find her on myspace.

The next three years were spent getting to know her and becoming her friend (yeah, I move slow.)

I was in love with her the entire time, but Spirit seemed not to be letting us get together.....but still I pursued.

Finally... after three years I finally kissed her... with that kiss I knew I was right, and that it was worth the three year wait.

So Spirit finally assisted, and I can say with all certainty that I feel for her now, the same way I felt for her three years ago...

I now have a girl who loves me in spite of my million and one flaws..... who has now moved two hours north to be with me.....

I am now, for the first time in my life experiencing true happiness... and for this.......I know that I am blessed...